Okay. Enough is enough.
so i’m looking over Random blogs on my recommended list and I come across one called unisexbathrobe. a decent enough blog, very nice person behind it from what I can see. Until i find this:
This was uploaded by silverwolfandcub, the blog which some of you know has been harrassing me for the better part of a year. he also runs a second blog called returnofsoundwave. do you want to know what the response to unisexbathrobe Reblogging this post was?
That. My. fucking. Name. Yes, it is under the Greyface lable, but look at that post again. “I will message you their Name.”
He has also been to several blogs asking anon questions about Hemorrhoids and cheaters. And every time I confront him on it, he claims that “nothing on my blogs are about you” and to “stop trying to stir up drama”
I have tried to forgive and forget. I’ve tried to ignore this but This is crossing the line Chris. Yeah, if you’re going to use names so am I.
I don’t buy the excuse that you “sold a journal with all that stuff in it” You should have never written it down to begin with! I don’t believe it was your nephew who blogged all this out of spite.
I don’t know why I even bother trying to give you the benefit of the doubt. It always comes back to bite me.
and all of this, all of it, was because you couldn’t handle the fact I didn’t want to date you. Yes, you took me to cons, and bought me many a lunch and got me through my wisdom tooth surgery. You got me a guitar and a rocking chair and bought me clothes. You looked after me when I got sick. I appreciate all of that.
What I do not appreciate is that when I told you I just wanted to be friends and NOT get into a relationship, you threw a Hissy Fit Royal, demanded back every gift you gave me and started posting pictures of my butt you had taken on Facebook. Yeah, remember that? My own mother called you out on that one and you took them down. Then you started posting on your old blog and created ones like this
using MY FUCKING PICTURE and trying to slander me while I was without internet! Thankfully my wife stepped in and got it taken down, but you didn’t stop there. No. You went on to create others and post on your old blogs. and then when you were confronted again, you deleted those blogs and just created new ones and kept on doing the same damn thing.
well you know what? I’m done. I’m done trying to forgive. I’m done trying to be the better person. Because of you, I’m terrified to leave my apartment because you’ll see me somewhere and post about me. I can’t go to my favorite spot in the city to relax and watch the river for the same reason. I have skipped meals because of you. I have lost sleep because of you. and I have stayed up late at night wondering what the point in living is because of you. If one mistake is going to follow me around for the rest of my life, why keep going? Why not swallow those pills? Why not press that blade to my skin?
The answer is this: In the end, I have a wife who loves me, who is willing to forgive my shortcomings and help me grow, not ridicule me and treat me like a fool. I have a future. I have something to give the world while you sit there and whine about being freindzoned while acting like a victim.
I. am. done.
[ooc: Hello Tumblr,
I know I haven’t been around much, been in the hospital a lot again with my mother and other life drama.
But despite my crappy inconsistent blogging there are those of you who I know care about me as person, and I love you all for it. Thank you for not giving up on me through the rollercoaster that is my life.
That said, this is my wife, the person I love with all my heart and have chosen to spend the rest of my life with. As a sensitive, compassionate soul she hurts because of this man on a regular basis. Do you know how it is to see someone you love like that in pain and feel helpless to do anything?
But we aren’t helpless right?
You have all been there for me when I really needed it, even when I hid my own little shell that sometimes I can’t come out of.
I ask you, as a favor, please do the same for her?
This here ^ is a link to the Canadian laws on the subject, but it may take more than that as we all know how slow legal action can be. It’s possible for someone to be banned from Tumblr yes?
Well Chris here has used it more times than any of us can count emotionally abuse my wife. I have an entire file of slanderous lies he’s posted about her, blogs he’s made specifically for that purpose. He even contacted her ex so they could harass her together. If you’re willing to help, I’m willing to show.
Please, if any of you have ideas of how to get this situation under control outside of Tumblr, please feel free to send them.
I’ve tried being civil and kind, I got manipulated and lied to for it.
I threatened legal action, he played the victim and acted like I was a nutball. You all know different.
This has to stop, both on the internet and in the physical world.
But at the very least, we can start here:
That’s him. ^
And if you type in “Harassment.” It becomes very clear that his actions are out of bounds.
If you would please go here? And join me in contacting Tumblr Support about this person? Because even having his blog taken down won’t do much, he’ll just make another one like he has before. However they CAN block his IP address.
For all you help and care, thank you.